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  • Truly commit to your spouse and your marriage
  • Experience love at a deeper level of intimacy
  • Love one another in the way you each want and need to be loved
  • Talk to your spouse in a way they’ll really listen and hear you
  • Negotiate rather than argue
  • Manage your anger and work through conflicts together
  • Forgive
  • Share in and support each other’s dreams
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Note Both Married and Singles,This is very important to all mankind.
It is time for us to turn things round those mistakes we have all made or in now,We have been making this mistake of let people or anyone if i may say this to ruin our happiness or marriage in the name of culture or what we believe,letting people or parents to pass their life for us to live for them or correct their mistake for them by telling you who or where to marry or date from.This has left many young ladies unmarried today because they are waiting for someone from their country or Tribe,someone who is rich and perfect and my question is who are we to decide what God has plan for us,we have to change things turn that believe around to let people know all human creature are same be ye who or where you come from,the same way a white color person behave same way black color person will behave too all depends on individual not countries nor culture or color of your skin,let us live God to be God.Many ladies has been left frustrated in life of love just because of wrong decisions,what the want and what their family want and the real love dies down in peoples live  just because of lack of understanding.Do we actually as ourselves what God want us to do in that situation you are in by seeking his face and words first before living that person to go because he/she is not from your place or perfect in all,are we looking for real love and someone to spent the whole of our live with or we are looking for inheritance of men,i will live you here for now till i hear from you.pls Do write to us if the is any question you want to ask,at info@onetruesalvation.com or kaldorgy@yahoo.com
                             ERIC JOHN

 Test and Evaluat Your Marriage In This Quet Tick Your Level
1. My spouse and I are happily married.
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2. If we remain married and things continue as they are now, I will be unhappy and unfulfilled in my marriage.
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3. If we remain married and things continue as they are now, my spouse will be unhappy and unfulfilled in our marriage.
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4. It is important to me to keep my marriage together.
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5. It is important to my spouse that we keep our marriage together.
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6. The problems in our marriage are too great to overcome.
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7. I am willing to forgive my spouse for what he/she has done to hurt me.
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8. My spouse is willing to forgive me for what I have done to hurt him/her.
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9. I am willing to do what it takes to overcome any problems in my marriage and make it a loving, intimate relationship.
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10. My spouse is willing to do what it takes to overcome any problems in our marriage and make it a loving, intimate relationship.
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                                   Love Quiz / Love Test To Know How You Love Your Spouse

Instructions: Answer the love quiz questions as honestly as you can, based on what you really feel is characteristic of your relationship.

Throughout the love test/questionnaire, the blanks are for you to mentally insert the name of your spouse or significant other (if you are not yet married).

Score the following questions on the love quiz on a scale of  less to 100%. less means not at all. 50% means moderately.100% means extremely. Be sure to score each question on the love quiz / test as honestly as you can, based on what you feel is characteristic of your relationship.We love you as Christ Jesus love you more than everyone.

Spouse’s First Name:


1. I share deeply personal information about myself with _______.
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2. I find myself thinking about _______ during the day.
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3. Because of my commitment to _______, I would not let others come between us.
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4. I receive considerable emotional support from _______.
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5. My relationship with _______ is very romantic.
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6. I expect my love for _______ to last for the rest of my life.
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7. I communicate well with _______.
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8. I cannot imagine another person making me as happy as _______ does.
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9. I will always feel a strong responsibility for _______.
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10. I feel that I can really trust _______.
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11. My relationship with _______ is very passionate.
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12. I plan to continue my relationship with _______.
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13. I feel that _______ really understands me.
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14. I would rather be with _______ than anyone else.
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15. I have confidence in the stability of my relationship with _______.
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Things You Should Know About Your Spouse atless

The quiz provided below is a fun way to increase intimacy and closeness with your spouse. First, see how many of the questions you can answer without the help of your spouse. Afterwards, circle the questions you cannot answer and ask your spouse to provide the answer.

Once you've completed the quiz, ask your spouse why he/she chooses favorite items or other unique answers. You'll find you'll have fun while you learn these interesting things about your spouse and increase the intimacy between you.

1. Birthday _____________________________________________

2. Birth City _____________________________________________

3. Favorite Color _________________________________________

4. Favorite College Team ___________________________________

5. Favorite Bible Story _____________________________________

6. Favorite Season of the Year ______________________________

7. Favorite Food __________________________________________

8. Favorite Drink __________________________________________

9. Favorite Restaurant _____________________________________

10. Favorite TV show ______________________________________

11. Anniversary Date ______________________________________

12. Dream Place to Visit ___________________________________

13. Favorite City __________________________________________

14. Favorite Song/Singer/Band ______________________________

15. Prays for often ________________________________________

16. Favorite Cartoon Character ______________________________

17. Favorite Bible Character ________________________________

18. Favorite Vacation Spot _________________________________

19. Carries Tension in this Body Area _________________________

20. Favorite Movie _________________________________________

This are not i don't care matters,this are thing that is killing Relectionship and Marriages because many don't want or choose not to know well about their spouse then in which benefit will it be to you not to know who you really are,Marriage or Relectionship are decisions you make and agree in so don't behave as if you are force into it be a man change things even you have choose not to continue that marriage or relectionship things can be corrected just make a new decision after visiting this site through,God has place us here to help when you need it.write to us at ( info@onetruesalvation.com or kaldorgy@yahoo.com or call 00447944625610)

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                                     Benefits of Healthy Marriages And Relectionships

Having a healthy marriage is not just a luxury item, it's something we should strive for and expect. Marriage researchers have determined that having a healthy, happy, fulfilling marriage benefits all family members. Below are marriage statistics from researchs.We believe God knew these benefits existed with the marriage of man and woman and that is why He instituted it. Modern research simply echoes what God says in His Word.Know this things it will help you Know who your are or what you want in life and if you don't have or seen this in your Relectionship or Marriage life please do not comdem your spouse in any way but seek God first or more for He is the giver of everything,and try to act on this things and things will defnitly change through Christ Jesus who always there for us.

Benefits of a Healthy Marriage for Women ans Man

These are many benefits for women and Man who are in healthy marriages, compared to unhealthy marriages, including the following statistics:

  • More satisfying relationship
  • Emotionally healthier
  • Wealthier
  • Less likely to be victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, or other violent crimes
  • Decrease risk of drug and alcohol abuse
  • Less likely to remain or end up in poverty
  • Live longer
  • Physically healthier
  • Increase in the stability of employment
  • Higher wages
  • Have better relationships with their children
  • More satisfying sexual relationship
  • Less likely to commit violent crimes
  • Less likely to contract STD's
  • Less likely to attempt or commit suicide
  • Above all making Christ Jesus the Head and the Source of your Family

A New Beginning is a turn-around weekend to help marriage problems, marriages in crisis and couples considering divorce. It dramatically changes your relationship with your spouse, regardless of what you feel for each other now. Any marriage can be saved! Think it’s impossible? We know it isn’t! It’s a fact—any marriage, regardless of how bad it is right now, or the problems being faced can not only be salvaged, but both husband and wife can fall deeply in love again. It doesn’t matter what you feel about each other right now. Anger. Bitterness. Rage. Hatred. Or no feelings at all. My experience and Gift i have seen and heard from many couples saying that there is a way—a methodology—that will turn your marriage around, stop the hurt, and rekindle the love that you had for each other back in the beginning.My question is have we ever ask ourselves is this my fault or are mine just being selfish and not understanding or not accepting changes in life with a different body which has become yours now,we have to learn how to forgive many said the have but not,it will not help your marriage or relectionship because it is your body if you don't forgive your own body then let the Blood of Christ wash your more and deep.

 

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Marriage counseling can be helpful and is necessary for certain situations, but it has it shortcomings. First of all Know what want from any counselor, the counselor has to get into your head. A place where you already have experience. That is a difficult task for anyone! We've found that, between the two of them, most married couples know what issues are causing their problems. If both husband and wife are clueless as to what issues are harming their relationship, they certainly need marriage counseling. But if you have an idea of what problems exist (adultery, lack of passion, lack of trust, poor communication, angry outbursts, etc.), our statistics show that you will have faster and more complete results with seeking Christ opinion knowing what Bibe say about that paticuler situation you are in and this are (for marriages in crisis)  marriages that are hitting a few bumps in the road or who want to prevent future difficulties.
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                       Pornography in Marriage

Watching pornography usually desensitizes the viewer to his or her own spouse.

Porn stars are young, agile, and “super-sized.” Once captured on film, they never grow old. They gain no weight, develop no wrinkles, and lose no muscle tone. They can get in sexual positions only an experienced contortionist would find possible and seemingly enjoy whatever the other wants to do with or to them. Very few spouses can complete with such a fantasy at any age, but once past 30, the spouse begins to fade quickly in comparison. Fill your mind with such fantasies and eventually, arousal by your own spouse becomes difficult. As a result, the person you should love, adore, and be aroused by becomes an aging, imperfect, “has been” of a lover. The ultimate conclusion to such logic involves seeking another young person to enjoy. All too often, men make such a jump. Women are beginning to make this leap as well in increasing numbers.We have to know what we are doing to our body and soul,remember brethren the bible said the Two of them we become one Not the three of them,why do we want to bring 3rd person in our marriage,watching porn is bringing someone else in your wonderful home,let's try to avoid third party in Relectionship because it destroy it and ask what did God said about these.

Pornography often causes the viewer to sin.

First you have to know watching porn is sin,Do you like to bring in sin in your marriage only in the name of one personal selfish desire,let's look at this,Jesus said in Matthew 5:27-28, "You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

Can a woman watch porn and avoid sinning? If she finds the porn degrading or disgusting in some way to her but watches it with her husband at his request, perhaps she doesn’t sin. On the other hand, maybe she sins anyway. If she thinks watching porn in any context is sin and does it anyway just to please her husband, then for her, it is sin. (Romans 14:14) Or, if watching porn defiles her mind, she leaves the door to her heart open to sin.

Anyone who watches porn to become aroused, however, observes it in order to lust. An argument might be made that the person is not lusting for the porn start, but for his or her own spouse. If this is the case, however, what is the point of the porn star? If such cases, the person addicted to porn probably needs professional help, whether or not he or she brought the addiction into the marriage.

Consequently, in answer to the question of married couples using pornography to spice up their sex lives, my recommendation  is to avoid pornography and learn to enjoy your spouse instead, as God intended.Nevertheless can we ask ourselves do we really need porn or any order form of attraction to have feelings for the person we swear to love and cherish,if you are please do not feel guilty but only repentance you need,in Onetruesalvation.com we show you an easy way to Christ who will come in you change you for good.

                                        How to Know if You Spouse is Having An affair(The Addictive Power of an Affair)

An affair is a very powerful addiction. The craving to be with the lover can be so intense that objective reality doesn't have much of a chance. The fact that a spouse and children may be permanently injured by this cruel indulgence doesn't seem to matter. All that matters is spending more time with the lover. That makes it an addiction.

Even the one-night stand may be an addiction. It may not be an addiction to a particular lover, but it may still be an addiction—to one-night stands. In affairs that have low emotional attachment, the addiction is often to the act of having sex itself, rather than to a particular lover.

The addition to one-night stands can also grow from a need to be continually assured of one's attractiveness. People who indulge in such practices want to feel that they can have anyone they want, even that person over there sitting at the bar. These people who need constant reassurance of their attractiveness must learn some other way to gain that assurance—a way that does not destroy their marriage.

The analogy between chemical addiction and an affair is striking. In both cases, the first step toward recovery is admitting that the addiction is self-destructive and harmful to those whom the addict cares for the most—his or her family. After recognizing the need to overcome the addiction, the next step is to suffer through the symptoms of withdrawal. Addicts are often admitted to a hospital or treatment program during the first few weeks of withdrawal to ensure total separation from the addicting substance.

The way to overcome an addiction is tried and proven—abstain from the object of addiction. Alcoholics, for example, must completely avoid contact with any alcoholic beverage to gain control over their addictive behavior. They must avoid places where alcohol is likely to be found, such as bars and parties. They must even avoid friends who drink occasionally in their presence. They must surround themselves with an alcohol-free environment. In the same way, when a wayward spouse separates from the lover, extraordinary precautions must be taken to avoid all contact with the lover—for life.

My question is why would a responsible person keep an affair outside your marriage,and the answer is selves believe most people don't believe themselves and what the have as wife or husband so the go round looking for what the already have at home,but for their blindness and lustful.

please people lets try to believe in ourselves,remember you made the decision of marrying our dating the person,does it mean that you don't know what is good at the first place No only you don't believe or love your salve again,things can be change today only if you want and believe in Christ Jesus and yourself.                                    GOOD LUCK AND WE LOVE YOU AS CHRIST DO LOVE YOU MORE,BE BLESS

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